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The Contrary

The Contrary

His family always was above the relationship, but when we are in couple will surely want to be all the time with me. Yes baby, but only on weekends when we go to a party. Yes bothers me not often reported, but it is going to be already very safe when we are together as a couple. You don’t like as I seen and criticises my ways to fix me, but he always wants to make me look very well. If I go out with my friends it bothers, but he soon shared with them. These signals that the couple will sending from the beginning of the relationship, are there, everyone sees them less us. We deny them, we justify them, minimizing them because our love is bigger than their behavior. So what: my partner was not and it was so.

But the infatuation is a State bordering at times into madness and lack of appreciation of the true reality. Neither bad nor good. So. Great frustration starts when in the background, I think and I hope that this state of infatuation continues all the time y: live happy forever we met and got married with someone of flesh and bone. Our expectations of an eternal love is a fantasy that we have sold over the years. All contribute media, societies and men and women who are backed by the marital union as an end in itself itself, and not as a vehicle that allows us to a realization of the life in common. And if we think a little on us, because either we were so before live with the couple. Now we are saddened and disillusioned wanting to maintain an illusion of couple.

We really disappointed the illusion not of the couple. Our partner is as it is. And we are as we are. So we are going through life without interpreted our signal and our partner, on the contrary, instead of live and appreciate what Yes we have and can build. We are discussing all the time in wanting to correct the behaviors of our partner: have us more attention, that we will always be the first thing in your life, that do not ever you flip anywhere where it is not me who always tells me how much I want or admires, anyway, few experiences we lose by being attentive in what not have partner if the topics seem interesting it would be good for me to write and if No, also. Thanks for reading, my mission and intent is quality of life emotional and put the electronic material at your disposal: when love couple turns into pain comes to the page and subscribe to our newsletter we have free materials for you.

Loan Refinancing

Loan Refinancing

The refinancing of a loan is a service offered by many financial institutions. The refinancing is usually articulated around the existence of a mortgage loan that coexists with other types of personal loans and other forms of credit: credit cards, deferred payments, shopping cards. If the main mortgage loan has been being amortized and has become already a return of contributions, whose sum of capital reaches a minimum between 10 and 20% of the total amount of capital, it is possible to go to this solution. The instrument consists of the establishment of a new mortgage, sometimes called a second mortgage, the amount of which should be enough to cancel the old mortgage and make capital available to cover the remainder of payments intended to encompass. The advantage of the refinancing is that if he is articulated through a second mortgage loan, the interests that accrue the operation will be much smaller than if you go to a personal loan.

The disadvantage of the operation is the coverage of expenses that must be satisfied, notary public, expenses of cancellation of the first mortgage, second mortgage, registration, possible charges Constitution expenses taxes generated by the operation. Before signing a refinancing of a loan you need to make sure that the amount of the new quotas will be affordable for the borrower, therefore should be a good economic study is proof that the current income will be sufficiently high to cover the costs of the loan. An interesting alternative, before going to the living loan refinance, is negotiating with the Bank with which you have formalized this mortgage loan, reducing the depreciation of quotas, this would suffice to extend the pending settlement terms, i.e. raising the total period of the life of the loan. Before opting for a variation of the existing loan or a refinance should ask and have recorded in writing, all expenses, commissions, payments (e) taxes will lead each one of the two operations and compare the amount of quotas.